Puppies learn through trial-and-error. They are constantly testing out new things to see what pays off for them--- “Will banging on my food dish get me fed?” “Will jumping on you get me your attention?” Puppies learn by carefully noting your reactions to their behavior, continuing to do what works out to their benefit. The learning period of a puppy is in their first 16 weeks, so using this time to take control and teach him how to behave on YOUR terms is essential. Here are a few guidelines to help lead your pup in the right direction during this period.
- Supervision is key when bringing home a puppy. One of the most common mistakes people make is letting a puppy roam around, exploring the house when coming home for the first time, and then punishing him when a mess is made. The puppy isn’t aware of what is right or wrong yet, so supervising and taking out your pup when you notice circle-and-sniff behavior is important. Even if you’re not home to watch over him, set up an area in a bathroom or laundry room to avoid any mishaps.
- Going around yelling “No, no, no!” is an ineffective way of training your puppy. Instead, reward him for doing good things. Reinforce your puppy’s good behavior with a treat or kind words, letting him know that he did was good and acceptable.
- Teach your puppy rules that you want him to carry on as he gets older. Sure, it may be cute for your little buddy to try and jump on you and sleep on your bed at night now, but when he grows up to be a 100-something pound Great Dane, it gets a little inconvenient. Make life easier for you and your pooch, teach him good behavior when he’s young instead of trying to fix unwanted problems when he’s older.
- Hitting your puppy is NEVER okay. You want him to know you are in control, but you also want him to trust you. Hand-feed your puppy and pet him while he eats--- let him know your hands are powerful, but never a threat.
- Teach your puppy not to bite. When playing, use words like “gently,” cueing him off to mouth more gently. When he does this, praise him for playing nicely.
- Taking field trips with your puppy is a great way to promote good behavior and courage around people. Introduce him to as many people, animals, and places as possible, and then reward him for being so brave.
It may take some work to get your puppy ready for his new home and life with you, but in the end it is definitely worth it! By taking these steps, not only are you encouraging good manners, you are also setting up a strong relationship between you and your puppy.




